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A Take on | NETIQUETTE |

A Personal Take on Describing Netiquette, its importance in our Day to Day, how to present yourself over the Web, and apply the classic manners to the modern.

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Netiquette 101

Ok, so if you are reading this, chances are either you already know about Netiquette or have heard about it, or someone told you should look it up, or maybe you just pressed the: “I feel lucky!” Button on Google, and my page showed up. 

Either way, here is my take on it:

• As a personal project, I had this idea for a while, about describing what is Netiquette in my own words, as practical tool for our modern interactions with the World and every Person in it.
This involves of course using your texting or writing tools, available to you from the good old 90’s survivor from that Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks movie: The Email, all the way to social web platforms currently available to today.

As someone who has found the need of imparting Netiquette in the Office since a long time ago (I began to deal with it at the office some 2 decades ago), telling people first about how things work regarding emails, all the nice options and tools the email program offered, and trying to be as organized as possible, including a descriptive subject, watching your Replies and Forwards, and trying not to SPAM.

Today with Facebook, Twitter, and the others, informality has begun to rule again.
You must be short, use emoticons, gifs (their back!), and so on. That means of course people cannot be as “netiquettey” as with an Email.
But, if for any reason you need to elaborate your Post or Message, or go beyond the 140 characters on Twitter, you can always try to follow some or all the next steps...

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• Politeness is not a dead Art, is it? 

To deepen the topic a bit more, how about going through the lost art of Politeness: The same way being punctual is a sign of respect, it also is to be well spoken or transmitting a sense to the receiver of your Mail or Message, that you have taken the time to think before you write something.

If your Text is of the Angry sort, remember the classic: Write an angry letter and then rip it apart! Well stop there and don’t rip apart your Computer, but simply delete it and start writing again, until you notice your vein in your forehead has stopped to Pop out and you stop seeing Red. Then the deep breaths and a couple of Ohm’s and go ahead. Elaborate why you want to send the receiver to oblivion… but now do it with Style!

I had this argument a couple of times so far, regarding the “Diplomatic” and the “Saying everything that comes to your mind” approaches. First, always remember that you only own your thoughts if they are in your Head... once you spell them out or in this case even worse, write them down and send them to someone, the potential misunderstanding is on the Table, and fixing them is even harder. So always try to be wise about what and how you use your words.
In this age where everyone is jumpy, stressed out, and behind on their favourite 10 Streaming Series on Netflix, it is always good to have a tad of consideration. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t speak your mind freely, just remember that writing it down accordingly to the social Netiquette rules, will help you with avoiding the misunderstandings.  

SPELLCHECKING

Good thing its free!

  1. Poor grammatically and orthographically written texts have been always a bad thing to see among humans, if we admit it or not. Written letters, and their modern replacements, the emails, followed always that line of thought.
  2. However, we had a short decline on that vision, due to the appearance in the early stages of mobile phones, and their derivate new Verb addition to the English Dictionary, “Texting”. Texting, limited back then for us to write only a certain amount of characters (150 if I recall correctly) which meant, we needed now to abbreviate everything to get what we wanted to say in one sentence.
  3. As technology slowly evolved (it perhaps only took a couple of seconds, in the overall timeframe of technological evolution) phones received something already available in there more smarter devices, the laptops and PC’s, which was a dictionary and a sort of autocorrect to aid us in avoiding those troublesome encrypted messages we were now sending and receiving. However, the increase in size and therefor multiple text messages represented an increase in costs, so we were back where things started. 
  4. Fortunately, again, the phones began to turn smarter (go figure) and they now accepted programs similar also to the ones available on Computers, called instant messaging platforms (or something like that), which relied only on having an open internet connection. And since the size of internet bandwidth required by the messages in the computer world are small enough, we now could again be free to write and write without having to worry about anything and could back to be fully articulated well-spoken human beings...
  5. Or at least we should have… I won’t enter on the educationally situation of schools, or that we now all should know how to properly enunciate, but I do would go on and say, that technology has been widely been adopted even by the most illiterate, and with it comes a wide array of aids, available for free, that strongly urges us to give us a hand, and try to complete our words and sentences like they should be done.  
  6. So, my thoughts are: Why shouldn’t you use them? The next time then, when you are writing an email or text message, and an underlined red word appears, or a word magically pops up above, respectfully suggesting you change this or that, consider it for a second, and accept the suggestion.  

Accuracy

 Be accurate. Be precise.

 Don’t do so much rumbling…
and cut of the BS (You can never know enough about the person you are contacting)

Accuracy and Precision in your writings. Saying what you mean directly, or even elaborately, but only to enhance the message, are greatly appreciated by any receiver.
After passing the mandatory formal intro, reading directly into the core, knowing your ideas, your perspective, your suggestions, your doubts, everything that is related.
It brings your receivers mind to a full state of attention, and will already begin to process a response.  

Cut it off

Unless this email is something more characterized as an unformal message, rumbling on and on the outer layers of the onion won’t do your message any good.
Now the worst part comes in the form of trying to come off as someone smarter or wiser on the topic, but doing it through cheap sell ads, being condescending, and doing it all just to obviously trying to sell your idea or point.  

Facts.

First, even though you know, or you think you know the person you are writing to, this is never the right way to proceed (unless you are deliberately trying to look like an Arse, in which case you can now skip this tutorial). Refer only to the solid facts of your subject, and in case you don’t have them, then proceed by enunciating your ideas accordingly and making clear for example: that these are to the best of your knowledge, that you are completely open for suggestion, or looking forward to further input on the subject from the receiver of your Email.

Your Presence on the Web
=
Get a serious domain!
(it won’t cost you much!)

Web Presence is a real thing. Like it or not!
I know we are in the Facebook and Twitter Era since a while now, but receiving an email from an gmail or Hotmail or alike, and trying to come off as some one serious, is a hard ordeal. 

Commitment


First it shows some commitment to your brand, company or yourself.
By registering a Domain Name yourname@yourdomainname dot com or similar, you have set a “virtual address” that some can look in to.
For example, if you send an email trying to provide consulting on something, and your domain name points to a website, that is dedicated to that service, explaining a bit more in detail you have mentioned in your email, it will definitely bring you closer to a positive response.
To get everything running, you need 3 things. These could be compared to your own house:  

1. DOMAIN = HOME ADDRESS

A “domain name”, this is something you buy with a Registrar, and that could be understood as your home address.
So, for example, thisisme.com is the same as john doe, samplestreet 10, house1, not a fake town.
A .com or similar usually doesn’t go higher than 15$ a year.
Under this name you can now also operate your customized Emails, to apply all your now mastered netiquette skills.

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2. HOSTING

A “Hosting”, which you buy with a Hosting Provider, something usually also provided by the same Registrar Company.
Basic Packages are dead cheap, so don’t worry about the expenses here neither.
A hosting is like the terrain where you build your House.
The size here is easy to expand behind, so don’t worry about buying a couple of acres upfront if you only need a simple store.
Although if things grow, your backyard can grow with it accordingly, without having to move your house address or in this case your domain name.

3. Finally, Your WEBSITE.

Here well you could go from the simple to the fancy architect and contractor combo, and use companies and designers that will do all the Job for you, or you could use some of the DIY options out there as well, something like Netzbuilder.com
Depending on the structure itself, or how much information you want to put out there, a website could be a simple “Landing Page” as something were nothing is on besides your brand name, a short slogan, and a contact form, all the way to complex site, with multiple subsections, and online store, and more.

The important thing I would rescue here is that whatever you are emailing and writing to people, the content of your website kind-a reflects this also. 

Rise Up as new Netiquette Master!

It will make you a better person! (Or at least you will appear one) 

As I mentioned in the beginning, I put this Netiquette interpretation together from my own perspective, and I hope you enjoyed it and found some useful tips on them.
I hope I haven’t stretched the sarcastic tone to far, since I enjoy it as long it is an obviously comic remark.
In case that someone got it the wrong way, well, I'm sorry for that.
For a more dictionary level reference on Netiquette, I am sure Wikipedia and all the other smart blogs out there can furthermore help you out.

All my best,

JD 

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